Not All MALES, are Men. Big difference from where I stand. A man does not need to use "Rufies, or other gimmicks" to get in the drawers, and if He does than its probably not her but him that has the problem. I do not have a problem with adult voluntary drug useage, but when it is a prelude to rape thats sleazy, and I would shoot the SOB who did that to anyone I know, and porbably shoot the dea;er if I could find out where the slug sheltered during daylight hours. If all a dude is looking for is play, then go to a working girl, leave real people alone, and You might live longer.