for 3 years, locked up for 13 years, on parole for 4 years. I did start late in life, because I didn't want to stay in Ill, so I didn't want a woman from ILL. I've been married for 15months now. I have quite a few women friends, and nothing and nobody scares me, period. If anyone did ever scare me, they'd be dead in short order ,because I'm not walking this earth fearing ANYBODY.