Lately, been doing small things (really doing small bites of big things) at nights & on weekends. I've mentioned that my wife's dad passed away right before christmas, but our builder (also a family member) passed away unexpectedly not long after. So in addition to my wife losing both her dad and her closest uncle since Christmas, we've now got a house probably 80% done and no builder at this point.
Being that the downstairs is done and we're living in it, does take some pressure off, and I've been doing things all on my own for a little while now. Main thing lately was building the stairs between the two floors, so now we can easily get from the living space to the garage, and not have to park outside. I'd never built a stairway before, and there was a lot to it -
fabricating the three 14-step stringers out of 16-foot 2x12's,
adding cosmetic skirt boards to the outer two,
installing the stringers with the skirtboards attached, in the stairwell from one floor to the other (that's a LOT of fun by yourself),
making and installing the treads themselves (stained & urethaned),
framing in around the stairwell on the upstairs side (got to have walls around the stairwell, even on the unoccupied floor),
framing the sloped ceiling in the stairwell itself,
sheetrocking the entire interior space around the stairwell, and
installing the door at the top, handrail, etc
Took me two entire weekends and a few nights in the middle. :unhappy: I'm a stronger than average oaf, but I'm getting tired. Seriously looking into possibly selling the business just to free up some time & money; to spend both of which with my wife in what time we have.
On the more positive side, we do have some horses in the pasture now that my wife loves feeding carrots to.
Not ours, but a cousin nearby agreed to keep the ~30 acre pasture bush-hogged if we let him keep some of his horses there. Right now I don't have the time to mess with it, so win-win for both of us as far as I'm concerned.