Who is the "u" here?
edited to add:
If you're referring to me vascillating on which load to use for deer out of my CAR this year, it's because "it doesn't matter yet". If I were going hunting today, I'd carry the ammo in it today, 55-grain soft-point.
But since it's not an issue for another 3+ months, I figured it wouldn't hurt to ask people's opinions in the meantime.
I'm not obsessing about it or unable to decide; just making conversation and welcoming opinions until it's time to make the decision.